Sunday, April 26, 2009

Health Update

Just a quick update on how we're all doing these days. Penny's the most fun, so she goes first. For her 5 month birthday, she went boating with Daddy at a really calm beach near Grand Anse. She really enjoys kicking around in the water and we've got a pool membership now, so we can go anytime we want to a place just a couple of blocks away (so I don't have to use a carrier or stroller or anything). She's chasing objects around the room a bit. It's more inchworming than crawling, but she's getting there. Her toys are now on a low shelf so she can select them herself instead of rejecting each of my suggestions.

She's so hungry now that I've started trying some oatmeal and stuff with her. She is COMPLETELY uninterested, so has some very soft skin and hair rather than a full tummy. Just when I think she's got sleeping through the night down, she'll surprise me with a desperate need for a snack at 4am. I'm sure she'll make it through the night again soon, though.

My mom is doing ok, but could still use some prayers. The trial period for the new chemo has revealed that she needs something more to get rid of this particular strain. So they've added in a biweekly chemical. This one has some nasty side effects. She was hospitalized briefly this week because the nausea prevented her from keeping anything down. Hopefully the combination of chemicals will put a dent in the fluid that has reappeared in her chest and abdomen.

Also keep my father-in-law in your prayers. His kidneys aren't doing too well and the doctors are shifting around his medications, which causes its own problems. He might be in the market for a shiny new kidney if I'm understanding things correctly. So keep him in your prayers too.

Me -- my right arm is still annoyingly dysfunctional. I get my hopes up with each weird tingle or shooting pain, but no change as yet. On the plus side, the pain when I lay on it has decreased, so I have three options now for sleeping positions. Yay! One day I may be able to go back to tummy sleeping, which is my first choice and hasn't occurred for somewhere near a year now. A bit of good news - I had briefly had a reappearance of the ganglionic cyst on my left wrist just before delivering Penny. This sounds horrible, but is just a bump on the wrist that prevents me from putting pressure on my palm without some pain (brutal when going to public restrooms). I was unplugging the alarm clock on Wednesday or so and totally wailed the bump on the end table. It was excruciating at the time, but it jolted the cyst enough so it deflated and I can now put pressure back on that wrist. Yay! I'm now up to one fully functional arm.

Dan is holding together quite well, though he announced the arrival of "panic mode" for his midterms in two weeks. So we can probably expect to see a little less of him and he may not quite feel "all right," but he's not doing too bad in the grand scheme.

Monday, April 20, 2009

A Day in the Life

I thought I'd share a typical day with you. It sounds odd, but it took me a while to get all the photos for the typical day, mostly because I pass a lot of these items at high speed.

So, our day starts at 5 or 6 a.m. when Penny wakes me up for breakfast. She gets breakfast first, then she plays on her blue mat while I start laundry. Then I'm back to the kitchen to make my breakfast (often oatmeal with papaya and honeysuckle honey). Once the laundry is washed, it goes out to dry on the porch.

I like to get out once a day to somewhere and the bus is the best way to get around. St. George's University (SGU) provides shuttle service among the various neighborhoods where students live and shop, with the main hub being campus. So I pack Penny's bag, strap her into her carrier and do my best to get out of the house just before 9am so we can get wherever and back home before peak heat. Here's a view from inside the bus. It's sort of a cross between a giant passenger van and a bus. My favorite part are the little jump seats on the right side of the aisle. They fold down into the aisle to provide additional seating when it gets REALLY crowded (such as on the Grand Anse route on Fridays, when the grocery store does its big restock).

In any case, it's only a few minutes from our stop to the Maurice Bishop Highway. This is our biggest road...one lane each way plus some room to pass on the right. The buses use the passing lane more than any other vehicle. They're especially fond of passing a car and then stopping abruptly because there is someone at their bus stop. There is a traffic circle at each end between our neighborhood and campus, no onramps or traffic lights, to give you an idea of how busy it is (only a few stoplights on the whole island).

We don't live more than a couple miles from campus, but on the way, we pass much of the commercial/warehouse district, including a brewery for Carib beer. There are also a few construction sites, most often residential buildings presumably to house the growing student population at SGU. It was interesting to see the use of bamboo as temporary supports -- I suppose it's a lot cheaper to use wood that grows locally for this task than it is to import wood.

So then you get to the SGU campus - pretty standard looking at the gate. The dorm to the right of the sign is brand new, constructed in little over a semester. Dan's class is the biggest the University has yet seen, so they also had to construct a new building/classroom for their lectures as well. I believe Emily's class in Newcastle is bigger still, so I don't know if they'll have to construct more buildings soon.

Campus is built on a hill - not as high as Libe Slope at Cornell University, but still mighty daunting in this heat. Here is Dan at the top of the hill, looking down at the student union in the foreground, his lecture hall's roof just beyond his hat and the main study hall (building with the pretty window centered in the picture). You can also see the mountains in the distance that indicate the main part of the island to our North and East.

Now you COULD choose to study in that study hall or in the library, but campus is littered with spots like those to the right. I suppose students might shy away from spots like these because they pose too much of a distraction. I've seen SO's ("significant others" is the term for people like me) coming up from the black sand beach on campus with their snorkel gear because campus has more than academic resources. As in England, alcoholic beverages are sold by the university and can be integral in the study process (though I'm sure the Captain Morgan in the computer lab HAD to violate SOME rule).

To continue our imaginary trip...Penny and I get off the Lance aux Epines bus and wait at the upper stop for the Grand Anse bus. Grand Anse is the main shopping area, so there's very frequent shuttle service over there (often every 10 min). The bus gets back on the highway and heads all the way back to our Lance aux Epines circle, but makes a left instead of a right. Somewhere along the highway we usually pass the local lawn maintenance team pictured here. They obviously employ kids - must be legal here.

We pass Excel Plaza (our only movie theater and a cheap veggie mart), the Round Houses (miscellaneous specialty stores, including toys, wine, video rental and other goodies), the Spiceland Mall (IGA grocery store, Do It Best hardware and touristy stores with overpriced stuff), before coming to a stop at the Grand Anse SGU campus. Grand Anse is where SGU started, but they moved to True Blue peninsula when they needed to expand. Currently, Grand Anse campus has a dorm or two, which I think are empty, a day care for SO kids and a little restaurant on the beach with a lovely view of the white sandy expanse.

Whew! It's starting to get hot. By 10am, I can start to feel the sweat trickling down my back. If I'm being good with my hydration, I've already finished one of my bottles of water. Sure, it's only a trip of a couple of miles, but there's students being picked up and dropped off all along the way and the bus drivers don't necessarily run right on schedule, so there's usually a bit of time spent waiting at various pick up points. In any case, we finally make it to our destination. It's not a typical day, but I have gone to Grand Anse to visit Celeste and Brent. They're just a short (and very steep) climb up from the grocery store. It's a brutal march up the hill, but the view is spectacular. Grand Anse campus is maybe halfway down the beach visible here.

Penny and I have gone to visit, play cards and generally enjoy Brent's hospitality. Brent seems to welcome the occasional distraction from his engineering projects. Celeste and Brent always have fun animals to visit as well. When we first visited, they were hosting an injured Scaly Naped Pigeon. We also observed a black bird the size of a big sparrow come in and try to steal a banana off the table. The best part is the only other color on him are his red eyebrows fixed in an evil scowl. We didn't get to meet the gecko that tries to hide in the middle of the floor when it's not hiding (much better, I might add) under the stove. When the day begins to cool, Brent escorts Penny and I back down to the bottom of the hill to catch the return bus at the police station. It's pretty here because they have a drainage ditch filled with these Common Water Hyacinths, though a bit annoying at the same time because of the mosquitoes inherent to standing water.

After flagging the bus down -- important note here about bus stops. There are few actual bus stops with benches and shelters here. A "stop" is a location generally agreed upon that people tend to aggregate at. This is usually a landmark or one of the dirt roads that leads to a residential area from a main paved road. Also, Grenadians have a habit of hitching rides. It is fairly common to see Grenadians hitching rides at rush hour on the highway. So for an SGU bus driver to know that you indeed are waiting for him, you must actively flag him down, back out of the street (there usually aren't sidewalks), and then walk to where he has chosen to call the actual bus stop. If I'm feeling lucky or I need some quick shopping, I'll take the Grand Anse shuttle to the Lance aux Epines traffic circle (pictured at left). Near the circle are Matt and Maria's place, the Grenadian equivalent of wholesale (funny because it's not bigger containers, just you can buy a whole lot of the regular size containers for a bit cheaper per unit OR you can buy unbranded food in plain clear plastic bags with rubber bands closing them) and a little set of rainbow-colored stalls for vendors of touristy stuff or local veggies. There's also an actual bus stop with benches and shade (and the smell of rotting fish, but hey, it's shade).

It's usually a long wait at the bus shelter, but a nice opportunity to take some sips of water and maybe get a feel for actual Grenadians. Listening to actual Grenadians is funny because they're almost as undecipherable as Geordies back in Newcastle. Dan had asked what the native language was at some point and the response was "English." I think there must be some words or phrases that are different, though, as was the case with Geordie. In any case, this is the only actual bus stop I've used, so there are often Grenadians waiting here. By an "actual bus" I mean a taxi with a government issued route, number pasted into its front window and I think a standard charge. I don't know that they have a schedule, but they do seem to come by with some frequency. The routes may only be a suggestion, though, because I've seen buses with the same number apparently choosing not to go down part of the route. I'll probably experiment with these as I need to get to St. George's (the capital city) on occasion and that's the only way to do it. Eventually, an SGU shuttle comes by and picks me up. I get off at the crab field to walk home if I feel like teasing the little guys a bit. Plus, we get to walk by some cool scenery (and fewer big angry dogs) on the way home.

Tuesday, April 14, 2009

Penny Crawls

Just a quick observation...Penny was watching this stick bug dance a while ago and now she seems to move in a similar manner.

Monday, April 13, 2009

Grenadian Easter Fun

Happy Easter, Everyone! Hope you enjoyed some good food and festivities. One of the big advantages of living in a blatantly Christian country is that holy days are also days off -- we are wrapping up a four-day weekend here! Yes, even medical students with extra exams hanging over their heads can manage to take a little time off when there are four days with no lectures.


We decided to spend Easter Day celebrating as the Grenadians do, by flying kites at the Pearls Airport, close to the northern end of the island. Dan's bible study organized the outing, arranging for a couple of taxis to drive us and stay with us as we spent several hours of fun. In case you're wondering why they let a bunch of yahoos play on the tarmac, Pearls Airport was closed when the much larger airport near St. George's was built. Actually, the construction of the bigger runway (which is big enough to handle large military planes) was one of the arguments used for invading Grenada in 1983. This week, we have seen that use as the U.S. military took over the airport to aid in security for President Obama's visit to Trinidad (next island nation to our South) this weekend. The old Pearls Airport sees more use as pastureland, a drag race strip and great kite-flying location. It actually reminded me of all those post-apocalyptic movies out there about what happens to all our buildings when people are gone. One of the planes there hasn't moved since 1984!

Some of us took this opportunity to try out our crafty side. Here you can see Brent's plastic bag kite (sponsored by IGA), which his wife Celeste is helping him launch. With some minor modifications from our drivers, the kite was soon flying high, despite some pretty aggressive earthward tumbles. In the image to the left, you can pretend to be a parrot sitting on Brent's left shoulder as he flew the kite.

I had made a paper bag kite to fly using a paper bag, some dental floss and hole strengtheners. While I was feeding Penny, Celeste managed to get some respectable altitude on that bag and had some fun adding modifications with found items throughout the day. In this picture, she is at the very end of the runway (a pile of dirt barely blocking your view of the beach and Atlantic Ocean). The other end of the runway, which you can see in earlier photos, goes right up to the mountains.

This was Dan's first time flying a kite. You may notice he's got the carrier on, but no Penny. Take a second to look at our shadows in the pictures...shadows are short because we arrived at 3pm or so. HOT!!! Penny began to wilt quickly, so she and I went back to the taxi for a snack and some rest in the shade. We came out periodically, though, so she could get a turn holding the kite reel (aka a stick).

There were, of course, lots of Grenadians at the airport as well. Some chose to enjoy their national pasttime -- cricket -- on the beach just beyond the runway. Most chose to arrive later in the cool of evening. As the sun dipped behind the mountains, we found the sky filled with tiny specks glimmering in the shafts of light poking through the clouds. You really have to open the picture all the way to see the flotilla hovering above the runway. Most were hexagonal, but there were some creative kite-makers out there.

As the sun disappeared, we enjoyed burgers, chips, tasty soda and much-needed water. We had a brief bible study in the grass among the cow pads, then packed up the taxis by headlight light. We departed just as the Milky Way was becoming visible. We had the coolest taxi with sky lights all along its length, so we could observe the blanket of stars most of the way home.

On Monday, Dan and several other students got up early to enjoy some American Football. It may seem brutal to meet at 8am to play a little touch tackle, but trust me, it's worth the savings in sweat. By the time they called half at 9am, they were drenched in sweat and ready to call it a day. I had gone home at 8:30am because the sun had emerged and I hadn't put any sunscreen on me or Penny, plus I was sweating up a storm just sitting on a bench. Can't wait for rainy season when the humidity is supposed to increase further!

Sunday, April 5, 2009

Life in Grenada

A lot of people have asked me what life in Grenada is like. The short answer is that it can be a lot like home (if you're willing to shell out some serious bucks). For example, we pay $800/month plus utilities for an apartment that looks essentially like something you'd see in the DC suburbs. I can only assume the natives don't pay this much for their housing. Only real difference is that everything is tile and there is no real hope of eradicating the ants or mosquitos. It is also a little odd having fruit trees just growing in the yard, but you can get that in cool places in western and southern U.S.

For me, it has been a little weird getting up with the sun, but that is more of a new mommy thing than a Grenada thing. Penny and I get up at 5 or 6am, she eats, then we take a burping walk along the front patio. We get to check the mountain in the distance to see if we should expect rain for the day. Then I get to go back in, put the laundry in to wash, maybe eat and then hang it out to dry. By the time Dan gets up to go to school, Penny might already be on her first nap.

The real differences are when you leave the house and start getting out to see the island, like we did last week when we went to the plantation. We're in a very urban part of the island, so there are houses dotted all over the place and several roads with commerce on either side. Once you get past the capital city of St. George, though, you start seeing little towns like this one - a traffic circle with a store or bar or both. These remind me of little towns back in Ohio where a stop sign indicates the center of town. Most of the buildings here are quite short and built on hills. Many looked well-worn and had a fair number of people hanging out on a Friday morning.

The other big thing you see all over Grenada is empty roofless places like this. Most are much more overgrown. These are most likely leftovers from Hurricane Ivan. The storm eye hit Grenada straight on, wiping out a huge percentage of the buildings, creaming something like 70% of the nutmeg trees (which take a decade or more to recover) and generally wreaking havoc. Ivan eventually reached Category 5 status and caused so much damage overall that the name was retired and will never be used for future hurricanes. With such extensive damage, the Grenadian economy still hasn't recovered. Our end of the island, being very touristy, has replaced most of the damaged buildings, though there are still some skeletal houses hiding in the bushes here and there (like a whole apartment building at the top of our block that only last month started getting its roof replaced).

Another difference I've been trying to take advantage of is all the cool new fruits and veggies. When am I going to get another chance to find Papaya for less than $2USD per pound? So I've been trying out different fruits and veggies on Dan. We had a lovely Papaya pot roast soon after I arrived (scoop out the seeds and cook some meat and veggies inside!). Today, I might get to sample a soursop smoothie (that's the big spiky thing in the front left bowl with the papaya and sweet potato). King fruit was boring, wax apples interesting but not enough for the price. Dan has requested that I not cook any more Christophene (he described it as being like celery without the flavor or strings). I have yet to find cashew (the fruit, not the nut, pictured as a big red thing in the rear left bowl of brown things) and am REALLY looking forward to mango season. I figure if apples are in the range of $4USD per pound, what's the harm in exploring some native fruit. I haven't figured out veggies yet, so must do some more net research to figure out what's what and how to prepare them. Dont' want to get some root that's deadly when boiled instead of fried or something.

So these were some of the things about Grenada I explored while on the trip to Belmont Estate. I'll keep you posted about more later. Quick health update: no progress on my arm, unfortunately. Just have to wait for those nerves to regrow. My mom has completed three rounds of chemo. Sadly, the cancer doesn't seem to be responding as quickly as it did to the stuff last year. She had some tests yesterday to investigate the source of some abdominal pain and it looks like there's fluid in her chest and abdomen that's not supposed to be there. Keep her in your prayers.